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Thursday, October 13, 2022
 
The Birth of Venus

According to some historians (and knowing that everything one historian says is disputed by another one), in 1477 Lorenzo di Pierfrancesco de' Medici commissioned painter Sandro Botticelli to paint The Birth of Venus for his country Villa di Castello. Lorenzo was 14 at the time. The Birth of Venus is showing a lot of naked flesh. So although I cannot vouch for historical accuracy, the story sure sounds plausible. Rich teenage kid wanting some naked female picture to look at, that would not be surprising.

Fast forward 545 years, and while a lot of things in the world have changed, male teenagers (or older) wanting to look at naked female flesh, and being willing to pay for that, is still a constant. After Twitch becoming a platform for hot tub streams, now journalists are discovering sexually suggestive content on TikTok. And while that fact didn't surprise me at all, I do find it weird how these subjects are discussed in modern media.

One surprising aspect is looking at sexual content on social media through a very legalistic lens: Does this content violate the rules of the platform? Does it violate the law? Thus the "15-year olds" in the title of the article linked above, because that would violate both TikTok company rules and various child pornography legislation all over the world. But once we made sure that these girls on TikTok are actually 18+ years old (and lying about their age to appear younger), would that really make the situation okay? Imagine parents discovering the sexually suggestive stream of their daughter on social media, would they be okay with it just as long as the girl was at least 18?

The other strange aspect is that journalists feel obliged to characterize the young women involved in this as being victims, and "exploited", or even "forced". Personally I consider myself to be a feminist, and that up to and including the point where I believe that a woman can choose out of her own free will to engage in sex work, and many do so. Some of the young women doing hot tub streams on Twitch made quite a lot of money out of it, with no indication of any external male force involved. Of course some of them also later regretted those decisions, but at the time apparently showing parts of their body online for a lot of money sounded like a good idea. I find it curious that if you compare different forms of illegal trades, the trade in sex assumes that the buyer is the criminal, while the trade in drugs assumes that the seller is. That is probably due to society's inability to admit that in most cases of anything, responsibility is shared, and lies with more than one person or side.

I think that it would be more helpful to regard all "showing of naked flesh for money online" as part of the same business. Is there really such a big difference between a hot tub stream and adult webcam sites? Isn't it all just different shades of grey, with no clear black & white in sight? Then maybe we could progress to a more helpful step, which would be to ask ourselves why taking their shirt off on a stream is better money than working for some women. The financial transaction between the man willing to spend $50 to see something sexually suggestive or explicit, and the woman willing to provide that content for that money, is telling us something about economic inequality (and not just the economic inequality between men and women). But it is also telling us something about the evolution of sexual morals, and how these evolve over time, not always in lockstep with legislation. It says something about society today if every platform on which imagery can be exchanged against money has a porn problem.

Comments:
There is a clear reason for " if you compare different forms of illegal trades, the trade in sex assumes that the buyer is the criminal, while the trade in drugs assumes that the seller is." The one who is considered criminal is the one that is not suffering/not the victim.

It is clear the drug buyer is the one suffering from the bad consequence of drug, while the sex seller is often the one suffering from sex traffic and sex violence. It can also be argued that the sex dealer - not the woman, but the person behind it - is often also highly criminalized.

I still think that prohibition does not always work as a way to protect the victims, and we should use the study that were done on some country to assess their efficiency. On the other hand, sometimes it is better to reduce people liberty, especially when their liberty is not really in their hand ( economic pressure, toxic environment, sensibility to addiction, etc...).




 
People do stupid shit for money. "Economic pressure" is what gets most people up in the morning and going to work. Why should a cam girl get "victim protection" / "reduction of liberty" to do what she does, but the guy dressing up as a hot dog and twirling a sign on the street doesn't? I would argue his job is at least as degrading / humiliating. Isn't that just *us* projecting *our* morals on somebody else?
 
Because laws are often using a hammer instead of a scalpel. We enact laws to protect sex workers because of the human trafficking that happens in the "traditional" avenues of sexual work. I.e. brothels, massage parlors, etc.

This ends up extending protections to your cam girls who may or may not need them but overall it's deemed better that some get protections and may not need them then those who do need them go without.

Of course this is all hypothetical and the reality is sex workers, including those who are victims of trafficking often do face criminal charges anyways, at least in the US.
 
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